terms & language boundaries
key:
💖 = absolute favorite (anyone can call me this)
💗 = anyone can call me this
💞 = anyone who shares this identity can call me this
👥 = okay when referring to me as part of a group ("hi guys") but not individually ("my guy")
☑️ = okay, but not preferred
⚠️ = there are specific conditions for who can call me this
🚫 = no
queer terms
- 💗 queer
- 💖 dyke
- 💗 fagdyke
- 💞 fag/faggot
- ⚠️ gay
*my girlfriend & jokingly from queer people specifically--not non-queer gays - 🚫 LGBT/LGBTQ+/etc.
- 🚫 MOGAI/IMOGA/etc.
- ⚠️ tranny
*trans/cisn't PoC, transfems, and close trans/cisn't friends - 💞 trannyboy
- 💗 trans*
- 💖 transsexual
- 👥☑️ transgender
- 💗 transvestite
- ⚠️ crossdresser
*other transvestites--as in, no non-TV crossdressers - 🚫 c-ntboy/titboy/etc.
- 🚫 d-ckgirl/etc.
- 🚫 f-mb-y
*and i'd better not hear it being thrown around, either
ethnic/racial terms
- 💖 Latine Indian
- 💗 Latine
- ☑️ hispanic
- 💞 spic
- 💗 indio (en español)
- 💗 american indian
- 👥☑️native american
disability & neurodiversity terms
- 💖 disabled, autistic, etc.
*if it's the word for what i am, just say it - 💞 crip/cripple
- ⚠️ crazy
*schizospecs, psychotics, cluster As, and cluster Bs - 💞 schizo
*as in schizospec. not non-schizo psychotics and mentally ill folks - 🚫 insane
- 💖 autistic
- 💞 autist
- ⚠️ lame
*my partners, headmates, & very close friends - 💞 gimp
- 🚫 handicapped